warm gestures

Today is just another day, not until I saw an e-mail for DZ, The Gongkapas Times. Her word of wisdom gave me courage and strength to move on.

*Many thanks, Ms Dinsy...*

The one from The Gongkapas Times...

How can someone who loves you so much be so wrong for you?

1. You don't love the same way.
   
2. Think - it may sound romantic, but it could also be that in the long run there will be incompatibility issues. She's homely, you're a barfly. She's intellectual and you're an idiot. Many reasons.
   
3. You may not agree with me, and much as I hate to admit it, but your background matters. If you're the high falutin' power broker, it's nice to have a good woman loving you, but if she's as 'kampung' as you think she is, you will not be taking her anywhere. I have seen this happen and don't give me *&^% about saying class and status do not matter. Which planet are you from?
   
4. She may be the most loving person on earth but you are an undaunted lothario. You are a cheat in every sense. And to have that love would be detrimental to your conscience.
   
5. You don't love the same way.
   And if you, man or woman, loves someone very much but the love is not returned, let me tell you this:
   Cut your losses.
   He or she will never see you for who you are.
   All that pain will have you on Xanax. It ain't worth it.
   
   You will survive. I promise you. I promise you with my whole heart you will survive.

p/s - Harikiri sequel, no?